After reading this article, i am wondering if my ambiguious tendency was a factor in my three year dating relationship. The high ambivalence had been useful in counseling situations, but not ideal in long term relationships.
"Such shades-of-gray people tend to have trouble in relationships...they stay in relationships longer..."
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703694204575518200704692936.html
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Very interesting article. I personally don't find anything wrong with being ambivalent, probably because I am one of those "shades-of gray" thinkers too. ;-)
nice link.
I thought so to. I myself am also a shades-of-gray thinker and have the ability to thoughtfully contemplate all components. However, I believe that skills of both personality can be acquired. Thanks for your thoughts Melissa :).
I was going to read the article, but it looked really long ;)
I guess you are to busy to read, eh? :)
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